I was the 'drama queen' child. Too much, you know that one?

 

I created a mask of an achiever yet inside I never saw myself as an asset, spending years climbing the corporate ladder & chasing financial gain yet every time I reached the goal or acquired the ‘things’ I was never fully satisfied.

 

After becoming a mother, my husband felt like a roommate most of the time & I resented him for his life not changing, whilst I took on many more balls to juggle & tried to make sense of who I was becoming (unsure if I actually liked her).

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I continued to show the perfect façade because everyone called me #supermum & asked ‘how do you do it all’. I wore this as a badge of honour however inside I was anxious AF & I hated my life.

 

I had no confidence or self respect, plagued with #mumguilt because I was supposed to LOVE every minute of this chapter, right?! It was what I always wanted so why did I suck at it? Fruit off, ego!

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So, I achieved all of the things however I was still missing something so I threw myself back into my government career hoping it would fix things: #escapism at it's finest....

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And then... our third child was born.

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​The birth was traumatic & that challenge broke me. Physically, mentally, emotionally & it became my opportunity; an unearthing.

 

From there I began writing, became an author & stepped into training as a professional life coach to heal & grow & I finally saw everything so clearly, as though a mirror to all the parts of myself that I didn't even know existed but were playing out & determining my everyday experiences.

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I had had enough of being a victim, being anxious, blaming others & lapping up drama, so I committed to myself for the very first time & because of this I can proudly say I am the woman I always desired to become - my life is now full of meaning, joy & purpose, thriving relationships with myself & others, confidence, compassion, self-love & a strong emotional state... Gosh I could go on & on....

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But it didn't happen overnight.

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It took support, consistency, guidance & vulnerability & through this I learned to trust myself.

 

I began to slowly let down the walls I had built up for so long.

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And finally, the relationships with those around me began flourishing.

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My children now get the best me.

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My work doesn't feel like work AT ALL. EVER.

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I've owned my inner drama queen, my authenticity & can now use my voice for greater good - inspiring others to do the same, and live authentically aligned with their truth, enjoying more balance, freedom, peace & thriving connections!!

 

There is no ROI greater than putting ourselves as mothers first (in this instance).

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I see you. I was you. You can do this. I'm here to support you.

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If there is a calling within you, & you'd like to find out more - take up your free clarity call with me today.